We learn to take responsibility for the narcissist’s behavior even though it doesn’t feel right



Now, I look back and can’t believe I pathetically let him dictate how I should be, I can’t believe I took responsibility for his behavior, I can’t believe I didn’t put my foot down at the first signs of controlling behavior. But it happened. That’s the way abuse works. The abuser’s swinging behavior from wonderful to disapproving throws you off balance. It’s hard to believe someone that great can actually be so horrible for you.

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