My other blog includes many book reviews…and I read a lot of books about narcissistic abuse, crazy people and recovery. Many of these might be helpful for you too:
People Can’t Drive You Crazy if You Don’t Give Them the Keys by Mike Bechtle
Life Code: The New Rules For Winning in the Real World by Dr. Phil McGraw
Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle by Tina Swithin
Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield by Tina Swithin
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond by Patricia Evans