I recently had a weekend to myself which hasn’t happened in years, so I decided to relax and sit around doing a bunch of nothing. To celebrate, I watched the Lord of the Rings trilogy extended version which takes something like 12 hours or so to watch all the way through. Last time I watched … Read more
Flying Monkeys! For those who don’t know this term, “flying monkeys” are people that a narcissist uses to do their bidding. Sometimes, a narcissist will not attack you publicly in any way–which makes them look good–but they are privately telling carefully chosen people how evil and awful you are. They select these people the same … Read more
Growing up with a narcissistic, absentee mother caused me to miss out on a lot of basic life lessons that kids in loving, healthy families learn early on. As an adult, I’ve often been hit in the face with lessons that many people might have already known. I learn about boundaries and life the hard … Read more
Narcissistic families often appear to be close and loving, but in reality they are enmeshed and disrespectful of healthy boundaries. In healthy families, independence is allowed and encouraged.
Me trying to have a rational conversation with a narcissist.
Sometimes that crazy woman who looks like she’s trashing a nice guy is really the victim telling you the truth about an abuser.
Many people accuse victims of playing the “victim role.” Why don’t we ever accuse abusers of playing the abuser role? Put the blame where it belongs!
Do you think the narcissist isn’t using you? Think again! If you have a narcissist ex, you know that they are extremely charming and trick you into believing everything they say. Even if other people warn you, the narcissist has such great stories to rationalize the cruel things they have done to others. Until it … Read more
Know the signs of a predator! I know we aren’t all psychologists or therapists, and we don’t all have the credentials to diagnose someone, but you CAN trust your instincts. A narcissist or a sociopath is so much different from a “normal” person, that it’s easy to tell something is wrong after you spend enough … Read more
Click here to purchase Dangerous Personalities: An FBI Profiler Shows You How to Identify and Protect Yourself from Harmful People I finished reading this book last night and learned something serious and important. I think my narcopath ex is worse than I’d thought! Here’s why…. First of all, the author is a former FBI profiler, (like Criminal … Read more