Are you being used as a flying monkey for a narcissist?

Flying Monkeys! For those who don’t know this term, “flying monkeys” are people that a narcissist uses to do their bidding.  Sometimes, a narcissist will not attack you publicly in any way–which makes them look good–but they are privately telling carefully chosen people how evil and awful you are. They select these people the same … Read more

One thing you have to learn and accept to move past narcissistic abuse

Growing up with a narcissistic, absentee mother caused me to miss out on a lot of basic life lessons that kids in loving, healthy families learn early on. As an adult, I’ve often been hit in the face with lessons that many people might have already known. I learn about boundaries and life the hard … Read more

To the flying monkeys who have never met me, but attack me for the narcissist

Do you think the narcissist isn’t using you? Think again! If you have a narcissist ex, you know that they are extremely charming and trick you into believing everything they say. Even if other people warn you, the narcissist has such great stories to rationalize the cruel things they have done to others. Until it … Read more

You don’t have to be a professional to know something is wrong!

Know the signs of a predator! I know we aren’t all psychologists or therapists, and we don’t all have the credentials to diagnose someone, but you CAN trust your instincts. A narcissist or a sociopath is so much different from a “normal” person, that it’s easy to tell something is wrong after you spend enough … Read more

Dangerous Personalities book review–Protecting yourself from predators

Click here to purchase Dangerous Personalities: An FBI Profiler Shows You How to Identify and Protect Yourself from Harmful People I finished reading this book last night and learned something serious and important. I think my narcopath ex is worse than I’d thought! Here’s why…. First of all, the author is a former FBI profiler, (like Criminal … Read more