One sociopath can destroy the morale and positivity of an entire organization

Sociopaths do extreme damage and destruction all around us every day and hardly anyone ever realizes it. Big things like terrorist attacks or mass murders stand out, but what about destroying group morale, smear campaigns, and sabotaging others? Most people are completely clueless about how a sociopath works, and though they think they are against … Read more

There is no use in trying to reason with people who enjoy being mean

I’ve learned over the years that some people just enjoy being mean. They are proud of it, and they have no desire to change. And it’s not just narcissists. It includes narcissists, sociopaths, flying monkeys, grumps and more. These are the people who never outgrew junior high–the people who get their kicks out of ganging … Read more

Did you make a fool of yourself trying to get your narcissist back after they discarded you?

I did. Well, the first time I did. By the second time I met a narcissist, I had started to gain some healthy boundaries and I kicked him out of my life when I knew he was discarding me. But the first time? Before I had any clue what a narcissist was or how they acted? … Read more

Narcissists collect people, but aren’t actually friends with their “friends.”

Long before I knew what a narcissist was, I was seeing very confusing behaviors from the narcissists in my life. I knew something was wrong, but I couldn’t put my finger on why it was wrong. One area that I found strange was the way my narcissist mother, and later my narcissist ex-husband treated the … Read more

Blocking and de-friending narcissists on Facebook

Like many people, I have a personal Facebook account, and like many people who have dealt with narcopaths, I have a pretty long list of people I’ve blocked. Many of them are flying monkeys, some of them are enablers, some of them are plain old bullies and some of them are people who show what I now know … Read more