I’ve noticed an interesting pattern with my narcopath ex and our son. Of course, it doesn’t surprise me, but it is pure narcissist! Basically, he tells everyone who will listen that he loves his son so much, but hardly ever gets to see him. He tells everyone that this is my fault, and I am … Read more
***Just a big warning: while I usually try not to post too much about religion, this is a religious post and is mostly from my general Christian point of view.*** After dealing with a sociopath for 3.5 years, I think about good and evil, right and wrong, God and Satan, and other ethical issues quite … Read more
People who are friends with violent abusers despite knowing the truth are communicating to the abuser that violence is acceptable to them.
Many of us have endured the narcissist smear campaign. The abuser goes around projecting his or her own behavior on to us, playing victim, and trashing us to anyone who will listen in an effort to distract others from hearing the truth that we KNOW about the narc. And it works pretty well. Most people just … Read more
Even the strongest person is susceptible because abuse seeps in so slowly. It goes unnoticed until one day you realize that something is seriously wrong and you are no longer sure what or who is wrong or right. If you find yourself noticing weird things early in your relationship and realizing that your partner’s actions … Read more
I’ve started making some coloring pages of my own just for fun since I’ve always enjoyed coloring, plus studies now show that it’s good for stress reduction! They aren’t very fancy, but I thought I’d share some. You should be able to click on the picture to see the full version and print it out. Copyright 2015 … Read more
After dealing with a narcissistic sociopath/psychopath, I am on high alert for more sociopaths. I know they are out there, and I know how easily they pose as normal people. But, I have also learned that sociopaths usually aren’t criminals and usually aren’t obvious, so I have become very alert to watching for other signs. … Read more