Month: December 2016
Make your 2017 Narc-free!
This is the time of the year when people start making New Years resolutions. I honestly can’t think of any I want to make this year…other than to continue protecting myself from narcissists! I know a lot of people are still in touch with the narcissists in their lives for whatever reason, but I … Read more
Letting God fix the situation because you can’t do it yourself
The Bible is filled with stories of good people who are bullied, smeared and misunderstood. People who do the right thing, but have their lives and reputations destroyed. It’s an excellent reminder that we are not the first. In fact, it’s a common theme in life–good vs evil. This happens in all kinds of epic, … Read more
My journey of healing from abuse as a Christian
Readers may have noticed that I try to be careful about mentioning God as a healer for abuse. I do this on purpose because I don’t want to alienate readers of different religious beliefs. (And I won’t touch politics!) Also, as I’ve dealt with the abuse, the aftermath and the smear campaign, sometimes I got … Read more
Accepting that abuse isn’t fair so you don’t get hung up on it
Recovering from serious abuse, (especially the emotional abuse that comes from narcissists,) can be a long journey. You might feel better off and on, make some really great progress then get stuck for a while, back slide a few times, and more. But, it is possible to keep getting ahead. For me, the thing that … Read more
A few words about plagiarism…which is NOT a healthy behavior
My memes must be really inspiring! Today, I saw a page that had blatantly plagiarised one of them. I read it and thought “what in the world? I wrote that!” So I pulled up my version to compare and found that the other page had literally just flipped some of the words then added some … Read more