Month: February 2019
Narcissists purposely violate your boundaries
If you ask a narcissist not to do something that violates your boundaries, they will keep doing it, and every time they will act surprised when you still don’t like it. But the reality is, they know you don’t like what they are doing, and they remember that you told them. They are just testing … Read more
You don’t have to be in a hurry to be a survivor
I’ve noticed that many people who have been abused get upset or defensive if someone calls them a victim. At the same time, I’ve also noticed that many people will speak with disdain about people who are “victims,” as if a victim is disgusting. So many people–both those who have been abused, and those who … Read more
Don’t feel sorry for the poor vampires and narcissists
Recently, I shared a link on Facebook from an author telling us she wanted to promote empathy for psychopaths. I can’t be very nice when I express what I think of her ideas. She is foolish, and obviously hasn’t had to deal with a real psychopath. This article is simply absurd. There is no way … Read more