As an active member of several narcissistic abuse support groups, I often see people post screen shots of their dialogues with their narcissistic abusers. They often argue with their narcissists or defend themselves, or they write heartfelt messages explaining how they feel and how the narcissist is hurting them. DON’T DO THIS!!! It may make … Read more
You can have a bad relationship with some arguments and incompatibility but it will never compare to having a bad relationship with a narcissist. A narcissist will tear your world apart and bring destruction even when you think the relationship is over. From my book The Faces of Narcissistic Abuse: First-Hand Experiences With Narcissists Click … Read more
You might feel all alone sometimes thinking you are the only one who saw the real narcissist, but there are others out there even if you don’t know it. You are not alone!
Don’t keep romantic mementos from a narcissist. The feelings behind them weren’t real. You don’t want to hit a weak moment and give the narcissist another chance. Keep that narcissist and their gifts where they belong! One of the tips from my book Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse: The Warm Hard Truth Click here to view/buy … Read more
My story of dealing with narcs: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OZIK2EC Narcissists will drive you crazy. Put the brakes on that relationship!
Acceptance is a major part of recovering from narcissistic abuse. Don’t get caught up in hoping the narcissist will change or worse yet…trying to fix them!
Narcissists have zero respect for boundaries or your privacy. They determine what they want you to do with your life, and if you don’t do it, they will. From my book The Faces of Narcissistic Abuse. Click to here to view/buy on Amazon.
Narcissists use money to control you. The sooner you can be totally independent, the better. Don’t get stuck counting on them. Show them that you can make it without their dirty money!
Sometimes we stay with narcissists and abusers and others can’t understand why…. From my eBook “The Faces of Narcissistic Abuse: First-Hand Experiences with Narcissists” http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OZIK2EC “Now sometimes normal people will ask you why you let these things continue to happen. Well, it’s because you want people to treat you well. You try in vain. You … Read more