A few days ago, I wrote about not engaging the narcissist. Don’t try to appeal to their sense of fairness or kindness…because they are missing those parts of their personalities! Today, I want to advise you not to escalate the narcissist. There are different types of narcissists. Some are more physically aggressive, some are more emotionally … Read more
Even before you realize it, the narcissist is playing a game to “win” your friends and your family, and destroy your reputation.
The narcissist wants to win over all of your friends and family, and will stop at nothing to do it. Your friends and family may think it’s harmless to stay in touch with the narcissist, but they have no idea what a “win” it is in the narcissist’s mind when the narcissist knows he or … Read more
People are going to judge you. That’s the warm hard truth. Well, if they think the narcissist is so great, they can have a good old time with the narcissist themselves! Here’s one area where you can be very generous about giving something away! From my eBook “Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse: The Warm Hard Truth” … Read more
As an active member of several narcissistic abuse support groups, I often see people post screen shots of their dialogues with their narcissistic abusers. They often argue with their narcissists or defend themselves, or they write heartfelt messages explaining how they feel and how the narcissist is hurting them. DON’T DO THIS!!! It may make … Read more
You can have a bad relationship with some arguments and incompatibility but it will never compare to having a bad relationship with a narcissist. A narcissist will tear your world apart and bring destruction even when you think the relationship is over. From my book The Faces of Narcissistic Abuse: First-Hand Experiences With Narcissists Click … Read more
You might feel all alone sometimes thinking you are the only one who saw the real narcissist, but there are others out there even if you don’t know it. You are not alone!
Don’t keep romantic mementos from a narcissist. The feelings behind them weren’t real. You don’t want to hit a weak moment and give the narcissist another chance. Keep that narcissist and their gifts where they belong! One of the tips from my book Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse: The Warm Hard Truth Click here to view/buy … Read more
My story of dealing with narcs: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OZIK2EC Narcissists will drive you crazy. Put the brakes on that relationship!
Acceptance is a major part of recovering from narcissistic abuse. Don’t get caught up in hoping the narcissist will change or worse yet…trying to fix them!