When I told or tell people about some of the abuse I’ve endured, I often take short-cuts. There is a LOT to tell. There are a lot of details. There are x-rated portions that I’ve never told anyone. There are r-rated versions that I have only told to a few close friends. There are parts … Read more
I recently saw someone asking for stories of cyber bullying, and decided to submit my story. I’ve detailed it on this blog for years, but I sat down to type a shorter version of it for someone who isn’t necessarily in the narcissist survivor community. Since I typed it all out, I thought I’d share … Read more
I’ve noticed a growing trend in the world of narcissism survival. People want to make a living off of us. It is one thing for professional therapist to make a living. It is one thing for someone to tell their story and sell it, but I am seeing numerous charlatans jump on the bandwagon and … Read more
If you ask a narcissist not to do something that violates your boundaries, they will keep doing it, and every time they will act surprised when you still don’t like it. But the reality is, they know you don’t like what they are doing, and they remember that you told them. They are just testing … Read more
Recently, I shared a link on Facebook from an author telling us she wanted to promote empathy for psychopaths. I can’t be very nice when I express what I think of her ideas. She is foolish, and obviously hasn’t had to deal with a real psychopath. This article is simply absurd. There is no way … Read more
After my abuser assaulted me, I gave him another chance because he promised to get help. Soon after, he assaulted my child. I called the police to make a report and kicked the abuser out of my home for good. The police decided that since there were no marks on my child, I was lying. … Read more
No, I’m not crazy and no, I’m not lying. You’ve just been fooled by a sociopath.