Remember, the narcissist sees something of great value you in you or they wouldn’t be trying to hard to get it for themselves and smash it out of you. Quote from my book:
This should be you…running away from the narcissist towards your emergency exit! Narcissists are masters of saying wonderful, beautiful things–exactly what they know you want to hear. They are so mesmerizing, that sometimes it takes a while to realize that their actions don’t actually match their words. You can count on a narcissist to lie. … Read more
We are taught that telling the truth is good and lying is wrong, but with a narcissist, we see that they are always rewarded for lying while we are bullied for telling the truth. Somehow, they turn everything upside down.
For me, the hardest part of being abused by a narcissist was trying to tell people what had happened only to find they were under the narcissist’s thrall and didn’t believe me. To go through such extreme torment at the hands of a Jekyll and Hyde and not be validated or supported was the worst. … Read more
You cannot fix a narcissist. You can only be responsible for yourself. They’ve already shown you what they are and it isn’t going to change. You can’t help the narcissist and you can’t make them become a good person. Trying to fix them will only drive you crazy. All you can do is leave the situation … Read more
Hope is good…unless you are hoping a narcissist will change. That’s one thing that’s never going to happen.
Many people think they are being polite, caring, Christian or kind when they refuse to speak about the narcissist’s abuse. They aren’t. They are enabling a predator and giving him silent approval to continue hurting people.
For you, your friends and family are people you care about, share things with and turn to for support. For the narcissist in your life, they are pawns to “win.” The narcissist doesn’t try to win over your friends because he likes them and wants to get to know them. He goes after them because … Read more
I cannot say it enough. There is no room for a narcissist within your life! The disorder is hard to treat and narcs rarely seek treatment. They simply continue to make you miserable! If there is a narc in your life, get as far away as you can! This should be you…running from the narcissist … Read more
A few days ago, I wrote about not engaging the narcissist. Don’t try to appeal to their sense of fairness or kindness…because they are missing those parts of their personalities! Today, I want to advise you not to escalate the narcissist. There are different types of narcissists. Some are more physically aggressive, some are more emotionally … Read more