A few days ago, I wrote about not engaging the narcissist. Don’t try to appeal to their sense of fairness or kindness…because they are missing those parts of their personalities! Today, I want to advise you not to escalate the narcissist. There are different types of narcissists. Some are more physically aggressive, some are more emotionally … Read more
Even before you realize it, the narcissist is playing a game to “win” your friends and your family, and destroy your reputation.
The narcissist wants to win over all of your friends and family, and will stop at nothing to do it. Your friends and family may think it’s harmless to stay in touch with the narcissist, but they have no idea what a “win” it is in the narcissist’s mind when the narcissist knows he or … Read more
As an active member of several narcissistic abuse support groups, I often see people post screen shots of their dialogues with their narcissistic abusers. They often argue with their narcissists or defend themselves, or they write heartfelt messages explaining how they feel and how the narcissist is hurting them. DON’T DO THIS!!! It may make … Read more
You might feel all alone sometimes thinking you are the only one who saw the real narcissist, but there are others out there even if you don’t know it. You are not alone!
My story of dealing with narcs: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OZIK2EC Narcissists will drive you crazy. Put the brakes on that relationship!
Acceptance is a major part of recovering from narcissistic abuse. Don’t get caught up in hoping the narcissist will change or worse yet…trying to fix them!
Narcissists have zero respect for boundaries or your privacy. They determine what they want you to do with your life, and if you don’t do it, they will. From my book The Faces of Narcissistic Abuse. Click to here to view/buy on Amazon.
Narcissists use money to control you. The sooner you can be totally independent, the better. Don’t get stuck counting on them. Show them that you can make it without their dirty money!
Sometimes we stay with narcissists and abusers and others can’t understand why…. From my eBook “The Faces of Narcissistic Abuse: First-Hand Experiences with Narcissists” http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OZIK2EC “Now sometimes normal people will ask you why you let these things continue to happen. Well, it’s because you want people to treat you well. You try in vain. You … Read more