I wrote this post on my other blog, but it fits here too, so I’ll add a link: Why it can be helpful to “turn the other cheek” at certain times
My other blog includes many book reviews…and I read a lot of books about narcissistic abuse, crazy people and recovery. Many of these might be helpful for you too: People Can’t Drive You Crazy if You Don’t Give Them the Keys by Mike Bechtle Life Code: The New Rules For Winning in the Real World … Read more
I call this my “dark” blog but I also have a lighter blog! This one focuses on narcissism and narcissistic abuse education and stories, as well as my eBooks about what I’ve learned. But, you don’t want to get stuck in this part of recovery forever. I hurt for a very long time after being … Read more
Dealing With Narcissists 101: The basics I have been there done that with narcissists. Far more than I would like! I’ve made the mistakes, I’ve given too many chances, I’ve foolishly tried to “fix” disordered people….I’ve done it all. It takes time to learn that there really isn’t much hope in dealing with a narcissist. … Read more
You cannot fix a narcissist. You can only be responsible for yourself. They’ve already shown you what they are and it isn’t going to change. You can’t help the narcissist and you can’t make them become a good person. Trying to fix them will only drive you crazy. All you can do is leave the situation … Read more
I cannot say it enough. There is no room for a narcissist within your life! The disorder is hard to treat and narcs rarely seek treatment. They simply continue to make you miserable! If there is a narc in your life, get as far away as you can! This should be you…running from the narcissist … Read more
People are going to judge you. That’s the warm hard truth. Well, if they think the narcissist is so great, they can have a good old time with the narcissist themselves! Here’s one area where you can be very generous about giving something away! From my eBook “Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse: The Warm Hard Truth” … Read more
My story of dealing with narcs: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OZIK2EC Narcissists will drive you crazy. Put the brakes on that relationship!
Acceptance is a major part of recovering from narcissistic abuse. Don’t get caught up in hoping the narcissist will change or worse yet…trying to fix them!