Author Joanna Moore–Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
As I’ve mentioned before, and other times, the narcissist wants your friends. Narcissists want to make sure that no one believes you about the abuse, they want to make sure that you don’t have a support system, they want to “win” the break-up, and they want to hurt you. Plus, if they can charm over … Read more
I cannot even begin to explain to you how a sociopath brainwashed me, but he’s done it to many. Why would I stay with someone who treated me in a way I knew was horrible? It was like he mesmerized me by saying the perfect words, mirroring my personality and fitting all my needs. I … Read more
I have been organizing everything that happened when I was with my former narcissist sociopath ex. I’m going through all the HELP! messages I sent people and piecing them together to make a timeline and a story of what it was like to be in that hurricane of narcopath terror. In one section, I wrote … Read more
Narcissists want your friends and family as their own. They want to make sure you have no support system and they want to make sure no one believes your truth about them. If you get in an argument with a friend, guess who will swoop in? Yep. The narc! It might be a simple argument … Read more
One of the narcissist’s biggest tools: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias The narcissist relies on Confirmation Bias to get people to believe the lies about the victims. If a narc tells his monkeys or enablers a bunch of lies about you, then innocent things you do will look like “proof” that the narcissist was telling the truth, because they … Read more
I have previously blogged about something I noticed–thatĀ a club enabled and protected my ex narcopath. I saw it for myself and noticed the phenomenon, but I recently found an article from a professional that better explains what I was seeing. This article is titled and focused on predators in religious organizations, but it begins with … Read more
Ya think you’ve endured a rough smear campaign at the hands of your ex-narcissist? Your reputation and credibility are being wiped all over the muddy floor in someone’s basement? Monica Lewinsky went through this in front of the entire world and survived! I cannot imagine the pain and stress she has endured. I think I … Read more
If you’ve been in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, you probably noticed all the past and potential victims that were still hanging around. Some of them have been abused, built-up and discarded a few times, and yet they are still holding out for a bit of the narcissist’s attention. This brief article explains why … Read more