So here I go again. After several years of safety, the sociopath is back. For years he had terrorized me, smeared me, stalked me, had others stalk me, threatened me, abused my son, and everything else an obsessed abuser does. As is common, he tells everyone I’m crazy. That’s what abusers do. The victim who … Read more

I have learned so many lessons dealing with a sociopath. Of course, I learn them too late, and that gives the sociopath an advantage! I’m a normal person expecting normal behavior, while a sociopath is plotting and conniving ahead of time how to hurt and use people and how to set the stage to make … Read more

I recently dated someone who was absolutely wonderful to me. He treated me the ways I had always prayed someone would treat me. There was no abuse, there was no misery, there was no scam. There was only me feeling safe with this person knowing he was honest and appreciated me. At first, I was … Read more

Sociopaths and narcissists lack a normal conscience and ability to love and interact with others in a healthy way. They are purposely malicious, but they often fit into society quite well. They play the games better than the normal people do, and that’s why they are so hard for novices to spot. Some people are … Read more

When I told or tell people about some of the abuse I’ve endured, I often take short-cuts. There is a LOT to tell. There are a lot of details. There are x-rated portions that I’ve never told anyone. There are r-rated versions that I have only told to a few close friends. There are parts … Read more

I’ve noticed a growing trend in the world of narcissism survival. People want to make a living off of us. It is one thing for professional therapist to make a living. It is one thing for someone to tell their story and sell it, but I am seeing numerous charlatans jump on the bandwagon and … Read more