Author Joanna Moore-Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
I have been organizing everything that happened when I was with my former narcissist sociopath ex. I’m going through all the HELP! messages I sent people and piecing them together to make a timeline and a story of what it was like to be in that hurricane of narcopath terror. In one section, I wrote … Read more
Narcissists want your friends and family as their own. They want to make sure you have no support system and they want to make sure no one believes your truth about them. If you get in an argument with a friend, guess who will swoop in? Yep. The narc! It might be a simple argument … Read more
One of the narcissist’s biggest tools: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias The narcissist relies on Confirmation Bias to get people to believe the lies about the victims. If a narc tells his monkeys or enablers a bunch of lies about you, then innocent things you do will look like “proof” that the narcissist was telling the truth, because they … Read more
I have previously blogged about something I noticed-that a club enabled and protected my ex narcopath. I saw it for myself and noticed the phenomenon, but I recently found an article from a professional that better explains what I was seeing. This article is titled and focused on predators in religious organizations, but it begins with … Read more
Ya think you’ve endured a rough smear campaign at the hands of your ex-narcissist? Your reputation and credibility are being wiped all over the muddy floor in someone’s basement? Monica Lewinsky went through this in front of the entire world and survived! I cannot imagine the pain and stress she has endured. I think I … Read more
If you’ve been in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, you probably noticed all the past and potential victims that were still hanging around. Some of them have been abused, built-up and discarded a few times, and yet they are still holding out for a bit of the narcissist’s attention. This brief article explains why … Read more
This link is really focused on protecting children from predators who would groom them for abuse, but it is very similar to the way a narcissist grooms a victim. I found that I recognized situations where my ex narcopath did most of these things to me during the two years he groomed me before he … Read more
Narcissists have a standard relationship cycle. They love bomb you and treat you like the greatest person ever, which draws you in. Then they begin to lose their charm and they devalue you. This is when the abuse begins. Finally, they discard you as yesterday’s news. This article gives you some of the warning signs that … Read more
An upside of going through narcissistic abuse? Really? Because it feels like hell! Well, yes, there are some positive things you can learn after you have been abused by a narcissist. At first it’s rough to cope with everything you’ve been through. In fact, for years, you will have setbacks. Narcissists don’t let go of … Read more