Narcissists will double slam you. February 20, 2019February 20, 2019 by joannamoore It is always stunning that the very same narcissist who misuses and abuses you will double slam you by smearing you with lies when you don’t let them misuse you anymore. They will make you pay when they are held accountable for their own bad behavior towards you. You can’t stop their behavior. All you can do is firmly deny the lies and ignore the circus they are creating.