Author Joanna Moore–Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
A narcissist usually starts smearing you and defaming you long before you realize it. And by the time you notice something is going on, they have done irreparable damage. It is amazing how many people will listen to gossip about you and never bother to warn you. It’s even worse that many people will believe … Read more
I recently went through a smear campaign from someone I’ve never actually met! So of course, I took notes to share some examples. 😉 She started an extreme smear campaign against me saying I had harmed her and she was a victim. Of course the narcissist never tells the real, story right? She posted repeated defamation … Read more
I recently went through a smear campaign from someone I’ve never actually met! The person kept copying my posts word for word, and I rightfully reported it. They were trying to make money off of my work, (and that of many others.) They’d copy our work word for word, put their name on it, then … Read more
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what to write about recognizing a smear campaign in action. I am currently the target of a really nasty one. The woman is attacking me with libel on a variety of social media sites, is taking screen shots of my page and encouraging people to harass me, and … Read more
The other day, I read an article that was shared to Facebook that was frankly, outright stupid, foolish, and dangerous. I’m not even going to share the link because such nonsense doesn’t need to be spread. The headline basically said “The numbers are in, 20% of accusations are false!” Inside the article, the writer referred … Read more
I’m going to outright say that, I do not like the police. I don’t trust them, and I wouldn’t call them for an emergency. Never again. I tried calling the police a few times when my narcopath ex was raging and going crazy. I never got any help. One officer in particular had it in … Read more
I frequently see negative comments about women, divorce, custody, child support and related topics online. These comments are usually things like “courts favor women,” “women waste all the child support on themselves,” “women cheat men out of their money,” “women use kids as pawns,” “women use false accusations,” and things like that. The other day, … Read more
Narcissists like to hurt people. They want to drag you down, and they will tell you lies about yourself to try to make you feel bad. Like the typical bullies, perhaps they think this will make them a little “better,” but they are wrong. I’ve noticed through the years, that narcissists often like to degrade … Read more
I work from home so I spend more time online than I should. Some of my social media groups overlap with a few people from my old pre-sociopath groups, so every once in a while, I will see nasty comments from people I don’t know who have been listening to gossip through the grapevine. Every … Read more
Maybe I’m alone in this, but when something or someone has been in my life a while, I calculate what percentage of my life I have shared with it or them. For example I’ve known my oldest friend for 75% of my life. I’ve lived in my house for nearly half my life. I wore … Read more